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please help. The last couple of weeks I have been feeling very overwhelmed. I have three children 10,8 and 6. I teach prechool two days a week and babysit for three small children during the day, and two extra after school. In the after noon there is a total of 8 children in my home, ranging in ages from 2 to 10 years. This includes my three. I can normally handle everything pretty well, but latly I just feel like I am going to have a break down. I can't think,have became very irritable when I normally have the patience of a saint. I feel like I just want to be alone, but I want my husband to hold me.I have no appetite, or thirst and am craving sweets very badly. I never normally like sweets. I am affraid that I am slipping into a depression.The last couple of days I have beenhaving a very tight feeling in my chest. LIke I can't breath, or a weight is on my chest. Please, help.
 
  AlisaA on 2007-04-26
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Could you please provide the following information for selection of proper medicine?
Patient ID: Sex: Age: Nature of work: Habits:

Describe your main suffering and from how long?
Exact location?
Any cause which you feel for this ailment?
What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
When did it all start?
What are the things which aggravate or ameliorate your suffering?
When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
How is your bowel movement and stool type (Constipation etc.)?
How sleep, how are your dreams?
Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings?
What medications have been taken earlier?
How do you look like (Appearance (fat, thin,smart, tall ,lean etc)?
If your are female how is your menstrual cycles and from how long(normal, irregular, painful, clotted, colour etc.)
Family history - What major diseases are running in your family?
Any other information?

dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Thank you for you interest, dr Mahfooz, I am sorry for the late reply I was out of town yesterday.

Patient ID: Sex: Age: Nature of work: Habits:

Female, 30, teach preachool run in home child care for 5 children plus my own three for a total of 8 children.

Describe your main suffering and from how long?
I have a history of depression and anxiety, but was treated by a phychiatrist years ago, and have not had any porblems for a few years. A couple of months ago, I started to not enjoy things the way I usually do.And started feeling very irritable about very minor things. About 3 days ago,I started to have a tightness in my chest with the feeling that a weight is on it and I feel like I can't get my breath.I want to be left alone by everyone except gor my husband whom Iwant as much attention from as possible. Not meaning sex, just to hold me. As for sex, I do not enjoy it so much any more.I am on the verge of tears at the slightest thing, and then I am very mad about anything. mood swings.I have no thirst or hunger and have a hard time with constipation.I normally do not like sweets, but latley I find myself craving sweets.

Exact location?
north western united states

Any cause which you feel for this ailment?
possiblt from stress, or not feeling like I am appreciatd .

What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?
Acne, severe fatigue, extremeties feel weighted down, coldness over all my body.Chronic sinus problems, snoring.

What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?
I can not think straight, or consintraight,I am not motivated to do anything like my usual daily chores.I am very tired of feelilng this way.

When did it all start?
I feel like it has been going on for most of my life, but had just started to climax recently.

What are the things which aggravate or ameliorate your suffering?
physically, any effort exhausts me,makes me so I can not make any decissions, emotionally to much noise, or chaos makes me feel like expoldong, alos little things that normally do not bother me.

When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?
I feel better in cold weather, but I have to be bundled up because I am extremely cold almost all the time.Hot weather makes me feel like I can not breath. But at the same time I love sunny,spring days when I can open my windows and enjoy the fresh air.

What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?
right now I crave sweets, which I normally do not. I do not really have any aversions.

How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?
How if your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?
I am thirstless, and hungerless.

How is your bowel movement and stool type (Constipation etc.)?
I have a hard time with constipation. nOt all the time, but usually. When I have constipation, stools are hard and lumpy. when not constipated, they are more like firm toothpate.

How sleep, how are your dreams? I usually sleep very sounly, I dnot remember my dreams, every so many mights however, I can not sleep, so I take melatonin.

Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings?
This whole thing to me feels not normal.

What medications have been taken earlier?
In the past 10 years, I have taken, 5 different antidepressants, prescription sllep aid, birth control pill for acne, antibiotics for acne, antibiotics for chronic sinus infections,Ritalin for severe fatigue.

How do you look like (Appearance (fat, thin,smart, tall ,lean etc)?
I am 5' 7 and 150 lbs. very dark hair with hazel eyes and light skin. people tell me that I very pretty, but I don't feel like I am.Until recently I have been overweight. I have lost 20 lbs since Jan of this year. I have never had a weight problem but te past 3 years or so I had gotten pretty heavy. I am still trieing to loose weight.

If your are female how is your menstrual cycles and from how long(normal, irregular, painful, clotted, colour etc.)
My menstral cycles are pretty normal, sometimes early, but not by very much.they are about 6-8 days in length. I have extreme pms before, feel fine mental when flow starts, but am completly drained feeling, mentally and physically. I have severe cramps for about 3 days, with clotts, then slight pains, I clott the whole time.

Family history - What major diseases are running in your family?
mother fine, father alcoholic, grandmother diabetes in her 90s. nothing alse.

Any other information?
My husband is having prostrate infection for 2 and half years.nothing has helped so far. He is seeing homeopth now, which is why I can not afford to.

Let me know if you need any other inforation. thank you so much.
 
AlisaA last decade
I forgot to mention that on about three fingers and 4 toes I have something like a mild fungus growth. There is no pain, just a residue that builds up underneath causing the nail to separate from the nailbed.Also, the acne is very itchy.
 
AlisaA last decade
Take Thuja 200 once a week for 3 weeks.

Other days ...Graphites 200 one dose every morning...

If you notice a major aggravation ...stop the meds and wait for improvements to set in.

Pankaj Varma
 
PANKAJ VARMA last decade
it seems you are a PULSATILLA lady although some of the symptoms are not covered.

please wait for dr. mahfooz and his advise. if he also thinks in the same direction, you can take pulsatilla 200c or 1m a few doses for most of your mental and respiratory problems.
 
rishimba last decade
I also have been thinking I am a pulsstilla .I do match alot of the symptoms. Do I need to match all of them? Thank you everyone for replying.
 
AlisaA last decade
i forgot to mention that i hae a home kit with the following remedies in 30c. if i can not use any of these, i will order what i need, i just wanted to check to see if i could use these. i will wait to see what dr mahfooz says, if he agrees, i have the thuja and the graphites as well as the pusatilla.i will wait for a reply.



acon all-c apis arg-n arn

ars bell bry calc calc-p

canth carb-v caust cham cocc

coloc eupat euph ferr-p gels

graph hepar hyp ign ipec

kali-b kali-c kali-s lach led

lyc merc nat-m nat-s nit-ac

nux-v phos podo puls rhus-t

rumex ruta sars sep sil

spong staph stram sulph thuja
 
AlisaA last decade
you have some major mental and general symptoms of pulsatilla and few of the physical ones.

thus, the remedy is a close match and would definitely work.
 
rishimba last decade
Dear AlisaA,
My opinion your case is as under:

1. I agree with the advise of dr. rishimba totally. Please take Pulsataill-200c single dose( 3 drops in a little water) at night for a week and report.
2. You second problem of Nail fungus - I would suggest you use vicks vapourup (morning and evining) on the affected area. I found it personnaly very useful for fungus. actually I read an article on it here on internet wherein he claimes to reduce the bad effects of fungus. I was also suffering nail fungus of my left thumb nail. I have used homoeo medicines but no success.In one months it has improved with applying vicks vap.please try.
3. About your husband prosprate infection please try R-25 (dr.wreckewe Germany) 15 drops thrice a day adnd report after 15 days.


dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Dear dr. mahfooz.
thank you for your answer. I will have to order the remedies as I anly have the pulsatilla in 30c so I will let you know when it arrives.As for the R-25, where can I get this, I have not heard of it before?Thank you again.
 
AlisaA last decade
I forgot to ask you if the the pulsatilla will help with the acne? It is not bad, but very irritating, and itchy.
Thank you also for the recommendation for my husband, I was not expecting this so it was a pleasant surprise.
He is under the care of a homeopath now,who has
him on ferrum phos 6x, prostate epithelial nosode 200c and belladonna 30c,Rhus tox30c three times daily until the chimaphila
1m comes that was special ordered. once the chim gets here he is to take the one dose of the chim
1m and discontinue the belladona and rhus tox.Would you mind telling me if you think this will work for him.This is our first case with her and we do not know her very well yet.They all seem to be in the book somewhere for prostate problems, but it confused me that she is using so many. I am studieing homeopathy on my own at home, and I am learning that you should use one at a time.So i am slightly confused
 
AlisaA last decade
pulsatilla will work for the acne as well.

now, regarding your husband, it all depends on the totality of symptoms what has been captured by the homeopath during case taking. the remedy would be based on the set of symptoms.

we cant comment on the prescription without taking the case.

ideally, a single remedy is suggested at a time but in some cases when the symptoms are divergant, a set of two ( max ) may also be suggested if they are not inimical.
 
rishimba last decade
Dear rishimba,
thank you for clearing it up for me. I was just curious.

Can I take the pulsatilla in 30c until I get the 200c? It should be here in about a week. I would just like to start feeling better.

I have been reading on the graphites, and I seem to fit alot of the physical symptoms there. Could I benefit from this one also as
Pankaj Varma suggested? Again, I only have the 30c.
 
AlisaA last decade
Dear AlisaA,
You have sent your symptoms to this forum and have been understudy of comptent drs.therefore, you are requested to follow their advise. Dr.rishimba is quite right. Please do not try so many medicines at a time with the consultancy of various drs. Follow any one of them and discuss your problem with him for proper treatement.
Regarding R-25 I may submit that is can be had from any homeopathic store, it is easily available almost all over the world.
Moreover you should try Pulsatailla first hopefully it will solve your problems in toto.

dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Thank you dr. mahfooz,
I am still quite new to homeopathy, so I am still learning. I am eaglery waiting for my order to arrive.
to clarify when the 200c gets here, am I to take one dose one time,or one dose at night every night for one week. I just want to make sure I have right. Thank you so much for your time.
 
AlisaA last decade
Dear dr. mahfooz,
I have recieved the pullsatilla 200c in liquid. pleas clarifly for me, am I to take it just once, or to continue every night for one week. thank you so much. I will wait for your reply.
 
AlisaA last decade
Yes every night for a week.

dr. mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade
Ok, thank you. I will report back after one week.
 
AlisaA last decade
Yes ...Pulsatilla will be your next med.

But you have to take Thuja and Graphites to clear up the miasm first ...after which Pulsatilla will show results.

Otherwise ...unlikely that Puls will show much benefit...if administered first.

Pankaj Varma
 
PANKAJ VARMA last decade
AlisA,

please dont worry about PULSATILLA, its both anti-psoric and anti-sycotic to some extent and has been used successfully as anti-miasmatic remedy for psoric and sycotic miasms.

this will work fine on you and would give you a long term relief.

graphites is anti-psoric and thuja is a strong anti-sycotic remedy, but in your case they are not required as you dont have a predominant sensation of itching of your skin with you other symptoms which could have shown a strong psoric layer.

further, you have not mentioned any family history of gonnorhoea. neither you have reported any kind of warts on your body. i feel your predominant miasm is sycosis but it doesnt call for thuja.

my conclusion is that, pulsatilla would be able to cure you without the help of any other anti-miasmatic remedies.
 
rishimba last decade
I do have small warts on the palms of my hands, and feet. I didn't even think about it because they don't bother me, they are just there.I had practically forgotten about them until you mentioned them just now.They are very small, and the same color as the rest of my skin.
 
AlisaA last decade
this further suggests the dominance of sycotic miasm in you.

if the warts are small and old and they are not bothering, you can just leave them as hey are.

just take pulsatilla as suggested earlier.

in case you really want to get rid of the warts, please describe their shape, size, location, distribution etc.
 
rishimba last decade
I have taken the pulsatilla three times now, and my skin is starting to clear up, I am sleeping pretty deeply, and I was starting to feel alot better, until last night when I was getting slightly irritated.

Well, the warts are only on the palms of my hands and the bottoms of my feet.They are flesh colored, someplaces in clusters but someplaces there is only one here and there.they are pretty flat, some barely are raised, but some are raised quite a bit. They ones on my feet are bigger.As far as size, it you look at a pencil lead, the width where the lead meats the wood, this is the size of the bigger ones on my my hands. the warts on my feet are bigger, but not by very much.
 
AlisaA last decade
try DULCAMARA 200C one dose every morning empty stomach for a week.

also you can apply THUJA-Q tincture on the warts some three times a day. continue this for a month.
 
rishimba last decade
Antim. Crud.30 thrice a day is suggested for a week.

dr. Mahfooz
 
Mahfoozurrehman last decade

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