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Extreme lack of personality/shyness/depression
Hello, I am a 21 year old male and I have always been shy around new people, but as I get older it causes me to be alone without friends, a girlfriend. I feel like I'm absolutely alone in this world and no one cares about me. I am craving to have a girl that I can get close with but I am too shy to be myself around anyone,male or female. Even family that I haven't seen for a while I have the same shyness. Although my life is empty I'm not suicidal and find things in life to enjoy alone of course.Is there any homeopathic remedy to bring out my personality and wipe out my shyness, it's really making my life meaningless right now. Thanks for anyones help
staind on 2007-06-18
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8. climate
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Is there pain/swelling/tenderness in breast menses before
10. Diabetic or non Diabetic
11. Desire sweets/sour/salt
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1. Name
2. Age
3. Sex
4. Married/Unmarried
5. weight
6. Height .
7. country
8. climate
9. List of your complain first 1. 2.. 3
Is there pain/swelling/tenderness in breast menses before
10. Diabetic or non Diabetic
11. Desire sweets/sour/salt
12. Thirst
13. Tongue
14. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine)
15. What exactly is happening ?
16. How do you feel ?
17. How does this affect you ?
18. How does it feel like ?
19. What comes to your mind ?
20. One situation that had a big effect on you ?
21. How did that feel like ?
22. What sensation do you experience in that situation ?
23. What are you showing by that gesture of your hand.(habits or Action) ?
24. current medicine you are taking
25. family back ground
26. qualification of patient
27.Daily routine detail-
28. desire and aversion of food
29. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient and so.. on and how you are peculiar from other person, public speaking or not
30. Is there any fear ( Known fear(exmple fear from exam, public, alone etc .) or Unknown fear.(.i.e. ghost or other thing)
31. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases)
.
32. You can place your photo at forum related to the disease for help in diagnosis.(optional)
Dr. Deoshlok Sharma
♡ deoshlok last decade
Thank you Dr. Sharma for taking the time to help me. I tried filling in the answers you need as best as I could and hopefully this helps. Thanks
1. Name - Matt
2. Age - 22
3. Sex - Male
4. Married/Unmarried - Unmarried
5. Weight 110 lbs
6. Height 58
7. Country - Canada
8. Climate It ranges from cold to hot. We are now into the summer months
9. List of your complain first 1.Shyness with lack of personality around others 2. Under weight 3 penis adhesions/unretractable foreskin
10. Diabetic or non Diabetic not diabetic
11. Desire- salt
12. Thirst- normal thirst
13. Tongue my tongue is red and has a crack down the center with bumps at the very back of my tongue
14. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine) I havent taken my blood pressure recently, but have always been in the mid-normal range
15. What exactly is happening ?
16. How do you feel ? Phsically I feel tired from when I wake up to about 8 pm and then I have more energy until 12-1am. In my mind I just feel lonely and unloved with no person in this world that I am really close to. I hide my true feelings, thoughts and emotions from others because I guess I feel no one wants to know in the first place.
17. How does this effect you? depressed
18. How does it feel like ? empty, unfulfilled
19. What comes to your mind ? I feel like an empty shell
20. One situation that had a big effect on you ? I think my life from when I was 12 years old had a big effect on me because I havent enjoyed life because of my shyness that persists to this day
21. How did that feel like ? I felt and feel too afraid to be myself in front of others
22. What sensation do you experience in that situation ? I feel like I have wasted 10 years of my life and enjoying experiences that I should have had if I could be myself and not worry what others think of me
24. current medicine you are taking I dont take drugs, but take a multi-vitamin, probiotics and iodine
25. family back ground my family background involves some dying of cancer, suicide, and alcohol related problems on my mothers side. My fathers side is more healthy and functional , with
26. qualification of patient - ?
27.Daily routine detail- My daily routine is wake-up , go on the computer for an hour, then brush my teeth and have a shower. Then I will get something to eat, then have a smoke. I will then watch tv for a few more hours then I will go to work for 8 hours then get home at mid-night from work and eat then watch some tv, play on computer. Occasionally I get together with one of my friends to drink which is about once or twice a month. The only socializing I do is with my parents and siblings and one of my friends. I have plenty of people I could easily be friends with, but I just choose not to hang out after school or work with them because socializing in groups is not my thing .
28. desire and aversion of food I like warm foods like lentil soup, spaghetti, stew, pizza. I like cold drinks
29. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient and so.. on and how you are peculiar from other person, public speaking or not I dont have anger issues and I am a patient person that is pretty laid back and reserved. I am peculiar from others because I dont enjoy socializing because I get too nervous and uncomfortableI cant express any emotion to others that I dont develop some kind of relationship with.
30. Is there any fear ( Known fear(exmple fear from exam, public, alone etc .) or Unknown fear.(.i.e. ghost or other thing)
I fear getting singled out or people paying attention to me. I am afraid of being alone forever but also fear the steps it takes to not be alone like create conversation, laugh and just have fun with others.
31. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases) I feel more aggravation in the summer because I dont get out and do a lot of new things that normal people do, and I feel more positive about life when I get to talk to friends
.
1. Name - Matt
2. Age - 22
3. Sex - Male
4. Married/Unmarried - Unmarried
5. Weight 110 lbs
6. Height 58
7. Country - Canada
8. Climate It ranges from cold to hot. We are now into the summer months
9. List of your complain first 1.Shyness with lack of personality around others 2. Under weight 3 penis adhesions/unretractable foreskin
10. Diabetic or non Diabetic not diabetic
11. Desire- salt
12. Thirst- normal thirst
13. Tongue my tongue is red and has a crack down the center with bumps at the very back of my tongue
14. Current BP (without medicine and with medicine) I havent taken my blood pressure recently, but have always been in the mid-normal range
15. What exactly is happening ?
16. How do you feel ? Phsically I feel tired from when I wake up to about 8 pm and then I have more energy until 12-1am. In my mind I just feel lonely and unloved with no person in this world that I am really close to. I hide my true feelings, thoughts and emotions from others because I guess I feel no one wants to know in the first place.
17. How does this effect you? depressed
18. How does it feel like ? empty, unfulfilled
19. What comes to your mind ? I feel like an empty shell
20. One situation that had a big effect on you ? I think my life from when I was 12 years old had a big effect on me because I havent enjoyed life because of my shyness that persists to this day
21. How did that feel like ? I felt and feel too afraid to be myself in front of others
22. What sensation do you experience in that situation ? I feel like I have wasted 10 years of my life and enjoying experiences that I should have had if I could be myself and not worry what others think of me
24. current medicine you are taking I dont take drugs, but take a multi-vitamin, probiotics and iodine
25. family back ground my family background involves some dying of cancer, suicide, and alcohol related problems on my mothers side. My fathers side is more healthy and functional , with
26. qualification of patient - ?
27.Daily routine detail- My daily routine is wake-up , go on the computer for an hour, then brush my teeth and have a shower. Then I will get something to eat, then have a smoke. I will then watch tv for a few more hours then I will go to work for 8 hours then get home at mid-night from work and eat then watch some tv, play on computer. Occasionally I get together with one of my friends to drink which is about once or twice a month. The only socializing I do is with my parents and siblings and one of my friends. I have plenty of people I could easily be friends with, but I just choose not to hang out after school or work with them because socializing in groups is not my thing .
28. desire and aversion of food I like warm foods like lentil soup, spaghetti, stew, pizza. I like cold drinks
29. Mind-behavior, anger, irritability, hurry, impatient and so.. on and how you are peculiar from other person, public speaking or not I dont have anger issues and I am a patient person that is pretty laid back and reserved. I am peculiar from others because I dont enjoy socializing because I get too nervous and uncomfortableI cant express any emotion to others that I dont develop some kind of relationship with.
30. Is there any fear ( Known fear(exmple fear from exam, public, alone etc .) or Unknown fear.(.i.e. ghost or other thing)
I fear getting singled out or people paying attention to me. I am afraid of being alone forever but also fear the steps it takes to not be alone like create conversation, laugh and just have fun with others.
31. Aggravation (increases-time, season,)& Amelioration (Decreases) I feel more aggravation in the summer because I dont get out and do a lot of new things that normal people do, and I feel more positive about life when I get to talk to friends
.
staind last decade
Hi Matt,
I see this thread is very old but I just stumbled across it and was sad to see the lack of response to your original post. So I hope this gets to you. I would like to know if your situation has improved and if you are happier in your life. It seems to me that such a cordial young man should be enjoying the company of others as they would no doubt enjoy interacting with you. Good luck with everything.
Best wishes.
Tia.
I see this thread is very old but I just stumbled across it and was sad to see the lack of response to your original post. So I hope this gets to you. I would like to know if your situation has improved and if you are happier in your life. It seems to me that such a cordial young man should be enjoying the company of others as they would no doubt enjoy interacting with you. Good luck with everything.
Best wishes.
Tia.
Chetia last decade
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