Need help urgently with Anxiety and Emotional Distress

I am presenting my case in hopes homeopathy can help me as it is helping my wife. It is urgent that I get help because doctors are wanting to prescribe prescription medications for me for anxiety. Here is a completed questionnaire I was advised to submit with my case, by another homeopath in this forum.

Please answer the following questions in a descriptive manner after careful analysis and recollection of previous experiences and happenings.

1. Describe your main suffering?

Anxiety regarding my wife and past problems in our relationship that haunt me regularly. Stomach aches, worry, chest pains (heartache)

2. What other physical sufferings do you have in your body?

arthritis in my back, male balding, receeding gums, foot calluses, kidney stones, groin pain (feels like twisting testicals)

3. What mental sufferings / feelings do you have associated with your physical sufferings?

feelings of suicide, anxiety, heartache, stomach pains.

4. What exactly do you feel when you are at your worst? Describe the sensation in your own words.

Miserable, helpless.

5. When did it all start? Can you connect it to any past event or disease?

Started when my wife took a trip out of town and said she wasnt happy in our marriage. We had problems prior to getting married with her not being faithful.

6. Which time of the day you are worst?

Evening

7. What are the things which aggravate your suffering and which are those which ameliorate the same? Example- time, temperature, pressure, rubbing, washing, eating, tight clothing etc.

Happier when its warm. dont like cold seasons.


8. Do your think your sufferings have relation to any external stimuli (like, change of place) or any internal biological changes in the body, like, menses (in females)?

no

9. When do you feel better, during hot weather or cold weather, humid or dry weather?

hot dry weather

10. Describe your general mental set up? Are you Moody, Arrogant, Mild, Agreeable Changeable, Nervous, Suspicious, Easily offended, Quiet, Arguing, Irritating, Lazy etc.

very active, Moody, arguing, suspicious, loud, changeable

- How do you feel before or during a thunderstorm?

excited

- Do you like being consoled during your tough times?

yes

- Are you sensitive to external stimuli like smell, noise, light etc?

no

- Do you have any typical habit or gesture like nail biting, causeless
Weeping, talking to one self etc?

shaking leg/foot while sitting or sleeping.

- How do you feel about your friends, family, your children and especially your husband / wife?

happy but dont have many friends. Distant from immediate family (mother, brother, cousins, etc...) love my children and they come first. Want to do anything to make my wife happy. Worry about her not being happy, worry she will stray again.

11. What are your fears and do you dream of any situation repeatedly?

Of dying at work and not coming home to my family.


12. What do you crave for in food items and what are your aversions?

Crave: Sweets and meat
adversions: anything soggy or not properly heated. Curry spice.

13. How is your thirst: Less, Normal or Excessive?

Excessive

14. How is your hunger: Less, Normal or Excessive?

Excessive

15. Is there any kind of food which your body can’t stand?

Soda causes stomach craps and kidney stones

16. Is your sweat normal or less or more? Where does it sweat more: Head, Trunk or Limbs?

More and Limbs (under arms especially)

17. How is your bowel movement and stool type?

very Regular large

18. How well do you sleep? Do you have a particular posture of sleeping?

Sleep okay, mostly lay on back.

19. Do you think you are able to satisfy your sexual desires in general?

yes

20. Do you have any strange, peculiar or unusual symptom or feelings? How are you different from others?

I fold my dirty clothes and everything has to be perfect all the time. constant worry about my wife.

21. What medications have been taken earlier by you to treat the diseases and do you have any particular symptom surfacing after the medication?

None

22. What major diseases are running in your family?

Osteo-Arthritis (mother) and hepatitis C (father)

23. Describe, how do you look like? Describe your overall appearance.

Pacific Islander, dark hair, dark small eyes, tall and very thin, tanned skin, thinning hair.
(For Females)
24. If your menstrual cycles are not normal, please describe the irregularities, like pains, moods, flow type, clots etc.

25. What major diseases have you had in your life and when. Please write them in a chronological manner.

Kidney Stones 1995, 1997, 2000, 2003, 2008.