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Am i suffering from sexual exhaustion?
I have a long case, but who doesnt?I'm 27 year old guy now, and started to have weird symptoms in 2002, when i was around 18.
I been masturbating alot since i was around 15, sometimes 5+ times a day. usually at least 2 times.
it first started with sleep problems, and personality changes. I didn't think much of it, just thought i was stressed.
Also my digestive track slowed down, and i started to gain weight.
then my headaches got worse, and started to see MANY flashes and black spots.
my eyes became super sensitive to the light, and also super dry, So dry that my lens of my eye has many little dots that make me see a ghost image above everything.
Then i noticed memory problems. I could meet someone new, and then after they left i couldn't remember their face. Or someone could tell me something and i'd completely forget. The memory and thinking problems started in around 2004.
Also i see a blue haze around alot of things, so such as trees where shadows should be, i see a blue haze.
Also i have a type of lashing flickering vision now. and somethings objects even seem to be shaking.
Also what started before the memory and thinking problems were the extreme fatigue. Im tired no matter what.
My years are also very sensitive now. Especially to music and sound with high treble, and they are always ringing. Something they didn't do before i started to have all these problems.
Also i have very dry skin now, scape, mouth is always very dry. I can drink drink drink water, and it doesnt really help, just makes my lips chap.
I can have headaches now that last weeks. Also seems my brain fog gets worst when i have them.
Even have burning sensations in my eyes, and other weird vision problems, which i didnt have prior to all of this.
At first i masturbated because it felt good. But after all the memory problems, and vision problems, and tiredness, i kinda used it as a drug. if i felt bad or my sysmptoms were bad, i'd do it again and more.
I don't really get super hard anymore. Its always a little soft, and orgasm doesnt even feel good really. hasnt for years.
I've been to the doctor years ago. They never found anything.
I probably had 10+ blood tests done, which checked for everything form dietbetis, to thyroid problems, and everything came up zero.
they all ended up saying i was just depressed, when i know thats not my problem.
I might be depressed but its because of my over all problem.
My biggest hurdle is the brain fog. Sometimes i can't think at all, and it hurts. I havent been myself since at least 2001 (i realize now that this was starting much earlier than i realize, in as early as 2001 i wrote in my personal journal that i didn't really feel like myself anymore but always assumed it was just depression or whatever).
Sometimes i wake up when im sleeping with my chest really hurting and weird vibrations all over my body, Especially in my head. It actually feels like someone is taking a sponge full of air and squeezing it underwater and all those tiny bubbles are coming up.
i gave up on finding a reason for my problem. doctors couldn't ever find anything, and always made me feel like i was crazy.
So i quit looking for the cause for a while, while continuing to masturbate many times a day, and my symptoms keep getting worse and worse.
I do have a job, but i hate going, im alwys so tired, and the brain fog, and migraines are horrible. Also the severe sensitivity to
There have been times in the past where i thought that sexual exhaustion was my problem, but everyone said i was crazy, and im not going to bring it up to the doctor.
A few years back, i masturbated like 9 times, and then i bgecame so sleepy, that i actually couldn't keep myself away long for a few days (besides waking up for 5-10 mins here and there) until it really freaked me out, and i forced myself to get up and stay away. Every since then my brain fog has been MUCH worse, and it almost seems that time has started to go by much faster after that, which did kinda freak me out.
Every time i thought maybe it was something to do with masturbation alot, i always thought i was crazy, and it was something else that i just haven't found. But doctors did so many tests, and the sexual exhaustion makes so much sense.
and my symptoms do seem to get worse after masturbating. Maybe not right after but in the hours or day afterwards.
I just want to see what you all think.
symptoms:
Severe brain fog (unable to concentrate, think clearly, takes a while to form thoughts and ideas, and takes a while to recall memories).
vision: severe light sensitivity. Constantly flashers and floaters. To very dark spinning spots in each eye that is very noticeable when out in the sunlight.
Dryness: SUPER dry eyes, skin, mouth, dandruff.
headaches: i get migraines, which i actually gotten before i started masturbating (had my first migraine when i was 14), which includes the aura and everything. but it seems like i have a constant mild migraine at all time, which is like a burning sensation now. Which includes the sparklies, and flashing vision.
Super tired all the time. I can sleep 12 hours sometimes, and wake up and nto feel gooda t all. I remember when i was younger it'd feel so good to be asleep and wake up feeling refreshed, i really miss that feeling.
I do sweat easily and cant stand the heat, something that is new.
Also sometimes i can feel a vibration that goes through my body. like a chock or jolt.
Also sometimes my hands will shake, not all the time, but many times.
Doctors have ran tests in the past which came up fine for all the usual stuff such as diabetes, and thyroid problems.
thinning hair and balding. many people say i don't look as old as i am, i always thought this was because i wacked off too much and didnt give the testosterone enough time to make me a man, ha, joking, but i dunno. besides the balding i do look younger than most my age.
I know i am leaving something out, but i think this paints a very good picture of whats going on.
last week i started searching again for ar eason for my symptoms, and randomly searched for something related to masturbating too much ,and the release of too many hormones, and i finally found what i think is the reason for my problem, and ever since then i havent touched myself.
today is the 5th day. i still feel pretty much the same though, so i guess it takes months for the brain to rebuild the needed chemicals and hormones? If we dont orgasm at all?
I also havent been horny in a while, its weird how i used to masturbate but never really become fully erect, or even enjoy it much.
does this sound like sexual exhaustion?
I always thought maybe it was from it, but never found any evidence, and everyone says masturbation is good for u, so i always assumed it was something else while i kept doing it. while something inside always said this is what was hurting me. i remember thinking back in 2004 that it was the cause, but never being sur,e i just kept at it.
i really hope that it is, and i really hope stopping it will help me get better. I havent been myself for 10 years now or so, and its very scary, and sad to think that i lost 10 years of my life, and even more if this brain fog doesnt get better. Im so desperate to be myself again.
i think my will power and knowledge about this issue now (if it is whats wrong with me) is enough to stop masturbating, and get better.
[message edited by blank on Sat, 07 May 2011 21:30:16 BST]
blank on 2011-05-07
This is just a forum. Assume posts are not from medical professionals.
I am happy to take on your case if you like. I have a standard intake form, fill that in and I may have some more questions.
If you have already answered some of the questions in your first post then that is fine, but it always helps to expand on what you have said.
GUIDELINES FOR GIVING HOMOEOPATHIC CASE INFORMATION
It is important to describe all your problems in as much detail as you are able. One word answers and short sentences are not particularly helpful. Discuss each problem one at a time, providing (as a minimum level of detail) the following information.
1. What exactly happens?
2. Describe all sensations and pains. Each pain or sensation should be described in such a way that allows us to imagine having the same pain.
3. What causes the problem to get worse after it has started occurring?
4. What creates some relief for the problem?
5. What triggers the problem into occuring?
6. What time of the day or night does the problem occur?
7. When did the problem start? What was happening in your life at that time? Did some specific event or treatment take place just before the problem started?
Move from one problem to the next, doing the same thing. IT IS VITAL THAT YOU GIVE A COMPLETE PICTURE OF YOUR HEALTH BY PROVIDING ALL PROBLEMS YOU HAVE, EVEN IF NOT CONNECTED TO THE MAIN ONE, AND EVEN IF YOU CONSIDER IT OF LESS IMPORTANCE. You should address each problem separately using the above 7 questions as a guide.
As well as this, please describe any traumatic incidents that have taken place in your life. Discuss anything that has had a lasting impact on you mentally, emotionally or physically.
Discuss the way that you manage or deal with your problems, or any problems that occur in your life.
Discuss any patterns you have noticed in your behavior especially concerning your disease.
Discuss any part of your life where you feel stuck or unable to change and grow, especially where this occurred around the beginning of your disease, or as the disease evolved.
Describe your childhood and the kind of environment you grew up in, with reference to your relationships with your family, your school experiences, and any serious childhood diseases.
If your earlier discussions have not mentioned these already, please describe:
1. The specific foods that you crave (not just like) or hate
2. The specific drinks that you crave or hate
3. What your sleep is like
4. How the weather and the temperature affects you
5. What kinds of things in the environment you are particularly sensitive to
6. What your general level of energy is like
7. What your level of sexual energy or desire is like
Remember to be verbose, descriptive. There is never too much information only not enough.
David Kempson
Professional Homoeopath
If you have already answered some of the questions in your first post then that is fine, but it always helps to expand on what you have said.
GUIDELINES FOR GIVING HOMOEOPATHIC CASE INFORMATION
It is important to describe all your problems in as much detail as you are able. One word answers and short sentences are not particularly helpful. Discuss each problem one at a time, providing (as a minimum level of detail) the following information.
1. What exactly happens?
2. Describe all sensations and pains. Each pain or sensation should be described in such a way that allows us to imagine having the same pain.
3. What causes the problem to get worse after it has started occurring?
4. What creates some relief for the problem?
5. What triggers the problem into occuring?
6. What time of the day or night does the problem occur?
7. When did the problem start? What was happening in your life at that time? Did some specific event or treatment take place just before the problem started?
Move from one problem to the next, doing the same thing. IT IS VITAL THAT YOU GIVE A COMPLETE PICTURE OF YOUR HEALTH BY PROVIDING ALL PROBLEMS YOU HAVE, EVEN IF NOT CONNECTED TO THE MAIN ONE, AND EVEN IF YOU CONSIDER IT OF LESS IMPORTANCE. You should address each problem separately using the above 7 questions as a guide.
As well as this, please describe any traumatic incidents that have taken place in your life. Discuss anything that has had a lasting impact on you mentally, emotionally or physically.
Discuss the way that you manage or deal with your problems, or any problems that occur in your life.
Discuss any patterns you have noticed in your behavior especially concerning your disease.
Discuss any part of your life where you feel stuck or unable to change and grow, especially where this occurred around the beginning of your disease, or as the disease evolved.
Describe your childhood and the kind of environment you grew up in, with reference to your relationships with your family, your school experiences, and any serious childhood diseases.
If your earlier discussions have not mentioned these already, please describe:
1. The specific foods that you crave (not just like) or hate
2. The specific drinks that you crave or hate
3. What your sleep is like
4. How the weather and the temperature affects you
5. What kinds of things in the environment you are particularly sensitive to
6. What your general level of energy is like
7. What your level of sexual energy or desire is like
Remember to be verbose, descriptive. There is never too much information only not enough.
David Kempson
Professional Homoeopath
♡ brisbanehomoeopath last decade
Yaap Doctors ended up saying i was just depressed too. Tons of blood test nothing wrong. I have been having exactly the same problem. for 3 years now. nothig seems to be working. My heart is pounding harder now than it used to. Hair loss, the worse is memory loss I cant remember whatt I did yesterday..
Kinggy last decade
The cure is simple please read carefully u must practice this technique to get it right. Premature ejaculation can damage relationships and damage confident its a worse thing to happen to men .I suffered badly from it now i m recovering. This website is great its helping lots people. Thank you Please help other people who suffer from it.
1 there is point when u feel ur going to ejaculate at that point u must squeeze the lower part of the penis imagine penis like a pipe u find the deep lower part of the pipe fingers wrap around the pipe squeeze hard . u must do this just before ejaculation happen
2 at the same time ur other hand fingers squeezing the top part of the penis
3 u must continue breath in and breath out
4 u have to apply this technique very quickly just before ejaculation happen
when u do this the sperm can not come out when sperm dont come out for 3 months u will start to recover
5 u have to practice many time to get this technique right
When ur about ejaculate testicals will come very near to the lower part of the penis u must gently push them down with one of ur finger while squeezing
Cut ur fingers nails so they wont cut ur skin while squeezing
u can also practice this technique when ur not having erection imagine penis is like a pipe try find the very lower part of the pipe squeeze fingers around the lower part of the penis then squeeze the top of the penis with other hand fingers around top part of the penis breath in and out continually
u will recover but it can take some time be patient
when u start to recover plz let me know thanks
this maybe help too try to control when ur urinate when u urinate stop in the middile of urination count 5 then urinate gradetully stop then count 10 then urinate at first it difficult but u can control try this at home when u strat 2 have control urinate a little stop wait 1 minute then urinate it will work but it can take months.
1 there is point when u feel ur going to ejaculate at that point u must squeeze the lower part of the penis imagine penis like a pipe u find the deep lower part of the pipe fingers wrap around the pipe squeeze hard . u must do this just before ejaculation happen
2 at the same time ur other hand fingers squeezing the top part of the penis
3 u must continue breath in and breath out
4 u have to apply this technique very quickly just before ejaculation happen
when u do this the sperm can not come out when sperm dont come out for 3 months u will start to recover
5 u have to practice many time to get this technique right
When ur about ejaculate testicals will come very near to the lower part of the penis u must gently push them down with one of ur finger while squeezing
Cut ur fingers nails so they wont cut ur skin while squeezing
u can also practice this technique when ur not having erection imagine penis is like a pipe try find the very lower part of the pipe squeeze fingers around the lower part of the penis then squeeze the top of the penis with other hand fingers around top part of the penis breath in and out continually
u will recover but it can take some time be patient
when u start to recover plz let me know thanks
this maybe help too try to control when ur urinate when u urinate stop in the middile of urination count 5 then urinate gradetully stop then count 10 then urinate at first it difficult but u can control try this at home when u strat 2 have control urinate a little stop wait 1 minute then urinate it will work but it can take months.
vishnu5 last decade
Dear Blank,
After reading your post i have realized that a lot of your symptoms are similar with mine, although mine might sound a little worse if i describe them to you, So, I wish to talk to you, i hope you get this message. I just want to know what you are doing currently in your life and how you are dealing with your issue.
Please mail me at nazialeo12atyahoo.com
I seriously need some person with whom i can talk to about my problems.
After reading your post i have realized that a lot of your symptoms are similar with mine, although mine might sound a little worse if i describe them to you, So, I wish to talk to you, i hope you get this message. I just want to know what you are doing currently in your life and how you are dealing with your issue.
Please mail me at nazialeo12atyahoo.com
I seriously need some person with whom i can talk to about my problems.
bunteeman18 last decade
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