Asthma and Carcinosin?

Hi,
I have been trying to find something to help my daughter with asthma and allergies to no avail. I hope someone can help. I am leaning to Carcinosin or Nat Mur to give as a constitutional remedy???
She is almost 5 years old.
I was very stressed when pregnant and my relationship ended when she was 3 months old.
Lots of emotional stuff after that with her father and at 10 months old she was burnt badly on her hand. At that time the hospital gave her A tetnus and diptheria vaccination against my will. A couple of months later she developed Asthma, very mild excema and all sorts of food,sugar,cat, pollen and dust mite allergies. She wouldn't necessarilly have a wheeze and wouldn't be distressed at any point of the attack but her oxygen levels would drop quickly after much coughing and she could go unconsious.
She doesn't slow down however so Drs are slow to recognise she needs oxygen as she will be jumping, dancing, singing etc and then just drop.
Her attackes come on after allery, cold or virus, hayfever and are very mucousy.
Her eye whites have and still have a bluish tinge. Dark (brazillian) skin, small dark birthmark, round face, lean and tall build.
She had no contact with her father from 1 year until 4 1/2 when she started talking via skype.
Has some peeling of the skin around her fingernails and has taken to peeling her nails off just in the last couple of months.
Doesn't like the dark, doesn't like the rain or wet, messy things on her hands. Aversion to baths/showers. Doesn't like blowing her nose or spitting out the mucous.
She loves french fries and strawberries.
She was cesarean birth after botch-ups of mid-wives that should have seen both myself and daughter die.
She is generally very happy with an intense imagination, Loves flowers, rainbows, angels. Often skips around the garden, singing, picking flowers off one plant to put on another that doesn't have any. Absolutely loves animals but especially dogs and cats.
She can get very angry very quickly when things don't happen the way she wants. Can be quite extroverted with strangers but can then be very shy with family members or people she knows.
pretty sure candida is an issue. She has had whooping cough but no other childhood diseases.
Has never been a great sleeper and in last month has been resistant to sleep until around 10pm.
Haven't seen a strong pattern in best at morning or night - seems to be highly changeable. Mostly though mucous is looser in the morning. Around a full-moon she is very active, energetic and not interested in sleep.
I have lots of family who have died from C.
One of the reasons for my confusion I guess is I have been giving her LM doses of carcinosin for the last 2 weeks and with each up in the dosage, she has had an asthma attack - not as acute as normal ones and the last one she also started itching all over and I noticed the excema had flared up - just mildly. In this last attack I gave her Nat mur 12 and 30c which was quite effective on the coughing and respiratry rate. So both remedies have had a physical reation.
[message edited by leighross on Sun, 20 Nov 2011 00:31:03 GMT]