Need heip Mr.Kadwa

Dear mr.Kadwa,
My name is Tarif.Could you please help me out.Could you please help me in finding out two things.

1. The similium(constitutional remedy) to me for my personsality type.
2.Reason for choosing this remedy as my similium.

I am asking for this remedy because I am having my treatment undergoing with a remedy,which I choose by doing online research and using Remedy Finder software.Also one of my previous homeopath recommend me this.So I found this remedy matching my personality. But recently one homeopath told me that treatment using remedy other then similium would result in suppression or palliative cure,even if the remedy is matching a lot.Whatever be the truth,nevertheless, please tell me about my similium so that I can be more confident about my treatment.

Here I am sending you my case history with along my chief problem.
Below I am giving you a case history to you:
I think I am suffering from sociaL anxiety disorder since I was 19.At that time I did not know that it is a disorder,So I did not go for any treatment then.Now I am 25 years of age.Here below are my
symptoms:

1.
CHIEF COMPLAINT
I feel severe anxiety at public like in metro,walking in a road,while purchasing anything at shops,eating and drinking in the public places while people watch me.I calmed it down to some extent by using Cognitive behavioural therapy.But still its not in my full control.Sometimes I feel to some extent fine but sometimes I feel severe anxiety.Also I feel unconfident while looking into the eyes of the passingby peoples in road or in public places at first glance or for first few seconds and also during conversation.when I feel anxiety I sweat even in cold climate.I used to go out only when needed which now I have changed to an extent.I feel very anxious during interviews.
2.
An early medical problem.
I had suffered through depression in my class twelth when I was 17.Tha time I was not able to take decision for very petty things and I used to do a lot of negative thinking which I controlled to some extent now. I l have been suffering through mild depression and inferior complexity even till now which I calm through posiive and rational thinking.I used to weep a lot then.

3.
Also I feel bad anxiety while making phone calls.I am having phone anxiety.And also I feel anxiety from girls,So I normally ignore them and do not make an eye contact with them.
4.
I feel mild to severe irritation in heat,under sun.I some times not able to speak comfortably while anxious.
5.
Last serious thing which i want to discuss with you is that people say that I my face looks angry while in anxiety, which could be due to the muscle tension so I am doing an exercise called progressive muscle relaxation.They are not allowing me to work.I was fired thrice from my job because they(office people) say that I look angry and in attitude.currently I am not working.they do not select in interviews even if i perform well.If selected they fire me after 3 to 4 days on seeing my facial expression.People misunderstand me,misbehve with me.Although In reality iam quite opposite.
6.
Modalities:
Symptoms get worse when I weare tight clothes,from sun,In hot weather,in crowded places
symptoms gets better : when left alone,In cool atmosphere,feels comfortable in closed room,no desire for outside(open)air.

7.
What I am have an aversion to?
Meet,egg.
8.
What do you have a strong desire for?
coffee,cold milk,butter,cheese,salty and spicy food,ice cream,excessive thirst for water,slightly but not very cold weather.
9.

What or who do you dislike?
music,sun,tight clothe,going out.
10.
Emotional or Psycological Symptoms
emotional instability ,confusion ,depression,poor concentration,anger,anxious,desire for attention,gets upset when did not get attention.
11.
How would you describe your sleep?
Normal but sometimes gets disturbed.
12.
What do you fear most?
being looked in a public place,reptiles,snakes,lizards.


Physical Symptoms
13.
What's your body shape?
medium stature


14.
What is your natural hair colour ?
black,
15.
Describe your scalp condition
hair loss.In my head i have a strange problem.There forms a white crust in my head.I stopped shampoo and soap because i thought it is due to these products but still crusts continue to form and i have to scratch it out to keep my head clean.
16.
Eye symptoms
improper vision,can not see distant objecs properly.
17.
Digestive symptoms:
fullness, flatulence after eating,bloating.
18.
Urological symptoms :
frequent urination.
19.
What's your facial expression?
looks angry in public places.
20.
Where do you feel the cramping?
leg,toes.
21.
What's your disposition(nature)?
worse in dry weather,shy,serious,worse in heat,responsible,hard working,emotional,helping,caring ang loving for family,not social at all,feels busy all the time(shortage of time).
How do you react to stress and tension?
tend to keep things to myself and think about them.
22.
FAMILY HISTORY:
I think that my that my father also had few medical problems like depression which he once mentioned and perhaps anxiety which appears from rude facial expressions.
23.
Do you dream at all? If you do, do you remember them?
Whats the content?
Not much but whenever somebodt misbehaves or spat I dream bad about that.
24.
How is your bowel habit?
when having anxiety loose motion.
25. Another peculiar thing in me is that I talk a lot to myself.Sometime i wispers and sometimes when I am alone I talk to myself by making noices.I find it irressistible to sort out my problems without talking to me.

sir.please also tell me the reason for choosing this remedy as my constitutional type.
Also,please make sure that whatever the remedy you choose should be my similium,as I am told that treatment by choosing a remedy other than similium will result in palliative cure or suppression of symptoms.
Thank you.
[message edited by tariff on Sat, 02 Feb 2013 07:35:12 GMT]