Chronic eczema on early menopausal woman

My eczema started in my mid 20. I remember sitting in the beach with very itchy lower legs, i though sand flies were the culprit. From that time on I would battle eczema. It is aggravated by airconditioned room and when im dehydrated. The eczema starts at the ankles and up the upper leg, then back legs. It looks checkered with black lines. When i scratch it it develops red bumps. I would put hot cup over the skin to relieve the itch but that ruins my skin. I also use topical steroid. I try to stay away from AC, moisturize, and hydrate to avoid it. Most months im successful. But sometimes the eczema comes back im a busy housewife and sometimes i forget to drink lots and lots of water or to put lotion. When i turned 40 i stopped having my period. I assumed i hit early menopause. I didnt go to the doctor. I dont like doctors. They scare me and sometimes the diagnosis makes you ill than the illness itself. Currently i have eczema, i didnt have it for over a year! It’s in my legs, but now also on my neck, and 2 spots on my face, and my outer vagina is itchy. I took liquid remedy lycopodium because i ready eczema and car sick ess can be gallbladder issues. It had been 3 days but im still itchy. Today i discovered abc homeopathy and it suggested lachesis and graphite. I hope this works. Can somebody take my case? And help me? I would really appreciate it. Can someone suggest a remedy to menstruate again? And to remove my neck skin tag?