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Hello,A problem I have had most of my life is with my size and weight.
Mostly my weight being too low or underweight. I am living in the US and grew up here. I am adult and 38 years old male. I have always been thin and low in weight. Currently, I weight about 110 pounds or 49 or 50 kg. I am about 57 or 58 at most in height or 170 to 173 cm.
This is a huge problem in my life. The biggest for me. I have a lot of other problems too, reflux issues, sleep issues, etc, but this is also a big deal for me and these things are probably all related or make the issue worse.
I do not know if this issue can be solved or helped by homeopathy, or it requires other things? Maybe herbal things that can help, or other things I do not know about. Maybe lifting weights again and trying to eat more again? Maybe lifestyle changes. Diet changes and forcing myself to eat more. Having patience, etc.
I am hoping someone on here can tell me if they think homeopathy can help or it might need something else? Or a combination of things.
I have the same weight as most girls and not adult men. Even girls who are 120 pounds or 110 pounds like me, or less, are considered very thin. So, imagine myself, a guy at my height and that weight.
Also I live in the United states, where it is definitely not normal to be thin for any person, let alone how thin I am. I am thin and very low in weight. And I am a 38 yr old man. I have tried everything.
This has really messed up my whole life. I do not feel good in any way, whether it is mentally, emotionally, physically I feel tired all the time and weak. Not good for my confidence. I have never had a woman partner, or been in a relationship I mean long term. I think this is the reason for all of it. I dont feel attractive at all as a man. Not a manly body.
My parents want me to find a woman and get married and have children. I have always wanted this too with the right woman. But I know I cannot attract anyone like this. I also have had sexual issues, or ED or impotence problems most of my life. Even since teenager years. I really want to have kids and Im getting older and I think that I physically cannot get my wife pregnant because of all these issues.
Anyway, my life is a real mess. This is a very difficult case I understand. I feel hopeless too. I will let anyone ask questions and I can provide more information. I have had reflux issues for a long time, I remember as far back as teenage years, thats when the issues started for my dad too. I inherited it from my father. Acid reflux issues, throat reflux or LPR reflux, always clearing my throat, always full of mucus in my nose and throat which is also called Post nasal drip it seems. Digestion and stomach issues. Sleep issues. I have trouble falling asleep. I never wake up feeling refreshed.
I appreciate anyone who has read all of this and wants to try the case or has advice to help me. Happy holidays to all of you.
Thank you so much. Please help. My life sucks. I hate being negative but it is just the truth right now. Thank you.
mysteryman on 2024-12-28
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FIRST FEEDBACK AFTER 7 DAYS.
NUX VOM 30
05 drops in a cup containing an ounce of water, sip one third of it, 15 minutes later sip the next third of it, and 15 minutes later take the last third of it.HALF AN HOUR BEFORE DINNER.FOR 3 NIGHTS.
DAY 4 ONWARDS
NAT MUR 30.
Dose five (5) drops/pellets , taken at the same time 3 Times daily.
Take the remedies until symptoms are improved.
Keep all doses 30 minutes before or after food, drink and teeth brushing.
IN ADDITION FERRUM PHOS 6X AND CALC PHOS 6X FIVE TABS OF EACH THREE TIMES A DAY FROM DAY 1.
NUX VOM 30
05 drops in a cup containing an ounce of water, sip one third of it, 15 minutes later sip the next third of it, and 15 minutes later take the last third of it.HALF AN HOUR BEFORE DINNER.FOR 3 NIGHTS.
DAY 4 ONWARDS
NAT MUR 30.
Dose five (5) drops/pellets , taken at the same time 3 Times daily.
Take the remedies until symptoms are improved.
Keep all doses 30 minutes before or after food, drink and teeth brushing.
IN ADDITION FERRUM PHOS 6X AND CALC PHOS 6X FIVE TABS OF EACH THREE TIMES A DAY FROM DAY 1.
♡ anuj srivastava last week
Thank you so much for recommending these remedies!
I just wanted to know before I start taking them, why did you choose these remedies? And why in this order? It is a lot of remedies to take at once, so I wanted to know the reason why before I do this. I think I have all of these. If I dont have the cell salts, I can get them easily.
I have taken these remedies in the past. Nux 30 and Nat 30 and higher potencies. I dont think I have ever taken those specific cell salts. So, just to clarify, from day 4 and on, I would be taking all 4 remedies as prescribed until symptoms improve right?
I also want to let you know that last week I took Lycopodium 1M once time. 2 pellets in an ounce of water and I drank it all after it disolved. Lyco seemed to have helped a little with my sleep, but not even close to 100% relief. I feel a little better waking up in the mornings, a little more refreshed than usual. But thats about it.
I chose to take lyco myself because it seemed to relate to a lot of my symptoms, digestion/stomach, sleep issues, my parents being very difficult and dominant people in my life, especially my mother. My dad is like that in a different way. I think my mom effects me more. Being a chilly type of person, most of things match in Lyco. I was thinking that was my constitutional remedy.
Anyway, that was last week. I dont think it has even been a full week or 7 days yet. Should I just let Lyco work and see what happens? Or can I start taking these remedies?
Please let m know? Thanks!
I just wanted to know before I start taking them, why did you choose these remedies? And why in this order? It is a lot of remedies to take at once, so I wanted to know the reason why before I do this. I think I have all of these. If I dont have the cell salts, I can get them easily.
I have taken these remedies in the past. Nux 30 and Nat 30 and higher potencies. I dont think I have ever taken those specific cell salts. So, just to clarify, from day 4 and on, I would be taking all 4 remedies as prescribed until symptoms improve right?
I also want to let you know that last week I took Lycopodium 1M once time. 2 pellets in an ounce of water and I drank it all after it disolved. Lyco seemed to have helped a little with my sleep, but not even close to 100% relief. I feel a little better waking up in the mornings, a little more refreshed than usual. But thats about it.
I chose to take lyco myself because it seemed to relate to a lot of my symptoms, digestion/stomach, sleep issues, my parents being very difficult and dominant people in my life, especially my mother. My dad is like that in a different way. I think my mom effects me more. Being a chilly type of person, most of things match in Lyco. I was thinking that was my constitutional remedy.
Anyway, that was last week. I dont think it has even been a full week or 7 days yet. Should I just let Lyco work and see what happens? Or can I start taking these remedies?
Please let m know? Thanks!
mysteryman last week
The typical Natrum personality does not like the domination of an authority like father, mother at home or boss, colleagues at the work field provided that the circumstances at the work field provided that the circumstances are favourable, he will fight outrageously and exhibit his grievances in an agitation and aggressive way or he will exhibit his impulsive and impatient character to the stimuli of circumstances by hurting the concerned person irrespective of the respect, caliber, age or prestige possessed by him.
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IF YOUI HAVE TAKEN NM 30 THEN HAVE IT IN 200 POTENCY ON ALTERNATE DAYS.
ALSO NUX IN 200 POTENCY.
WHAT IS YOUR RESPONSE WHEN YOU ARE DOMINATED.
[Edited by anuj srivastava on 2024-12-29 02:53:33]
https://www.distacart.com/
www.HomeopathicRemediesOnline.com.
https://www.netmeds.com/
Homeo Bazaar
https://www.homoeobazaar.com/
Above are Indian sites from where you can get all homeopathic remedies.
https://remedia-homeopathy.com/shop
Austrian Site
YOU CAN EXPLORE ABOVE SITES FOR ORDERING REMEDIES.
IF YOUI HAVE TAKEN NM 30 THEN HAVE IT IN 200 POTENCY ON ALTERNATE DAYS.
ALSO NUX IN 200 POTENCY.
WHAT IS YOUR RESPONSE WHEN YOU ARE DOMINATED.
[Edited by anuj srivastava on 2024-12-29 02:53:33]
♡ anuj srivastava last week
Hmmm ok. I see. But that really did not answer all my questions. I was very careful to ask specific questions with details. and u responded with an interesting paragraph about Nat personality which I did not know. But why did u prescribe 4 remedies then?
I have no problem getting homeopathic remedies. they have stores here that sell it and I can get them easily or order online. I have Nat and Nux in different potencies. I have probably taken Nat up to 1m and Nux up to 10m before.
But u are making it sound like Nat is my constitution remedy. I am not sure about being dominated. I mean that my parents are very difficult, they are not easy going. They criticize. They do not let us do what we want. They are controlling. They are also stubborn and negative most of the time. And yes this is how I respond to parents and others in the work place who have more power over me.
I actually do not respond this way to my parents too much, because I am more of an obedient person, but as an adult I started to stand up for myself.
So, you didnt really answer my questions and just posted links to where to buy remedies. I hope this gives you more information about the feeling of a dominant parent or strict parents or being controlled. Also, my mom compares me to other people, or others my age, which is one of the worst feelings for me. And messes with my confidence.
I have no problem getting homeopathic remedies. they have stores here that sell it and I can get them easily or order online. I have Nat and Nux in different potencies. I have probably taken Nat up to 1m and Nux up to 10m before.
But u are making it sound like Nat is my constitution remedy. I am not sure about being dominated. I mean that my parents are very difficult, they are not easy going. They criticize. They do not let us do what we want. They are controlling. They are also stubborn and negative most of the time. And yes this is how I respond to parents and others in the work place who have more power over me.
I actually do not respond this way to my parents too much, because I am more of an obedient person, but as an adult I started to stand up for myself.
So, you didnt really answer my questions and just posted links to where to buy remedies. I hope this gives you more information about the feeling of a dominant parent or strict parents or being controlled. Also, my mom compares me to other people, or others my age, which is one of the worst feelings for me. And messes with my confidence.
mysteryman last week
why did u prescribe 4 remedies then?
I prescribe like that.
I have Nat and in different potencies. I have probably taken Nat up to 1m and Nux up to 10m before.When you give our symptoms you should pen down the remedies you have taken and the potencies.
They do not let us do what we want. They are controlling.Means they are dominating.
I actually do not respond this way to my parents too much,peruse the u/m paras and respond.
history of taking on too much at a young age, having too many expectations placed on them, too strict parental control. They try to live up to these expectations and make a tremendous effort to perform exceedingly well. They set for themselves high standards or goals that are near impossible to achieve and drive themselves to try and accomplish them. In that sense, they reach out for perfection, and almost finish themselves in doing so.
Over strict parents impose all their desires on the child and do not allow him to think or do anything on his own. He cannot take his own decisions, to the extent that he is not allowed even to decide what clothes he should wear. If he starts taking his own decisions or does not live up to the expectations placed upon him, he will be punished cruelly. So he tries to live up to these expectations by being obedient and angelic in his behaviour, and by being excellent in his work. But he begins to develop a lack of self-confidence, and becomes nervous. He is irresolute, because the outcome of his decisiveness is usually a severe punishment. If the domination persists and he is compelled to put up with it, he starts reacting with cruelty, malice, want of moral feeling, and antisocial behaviour. Here he may also develop a tremendous overconfidence with contempt for others.
So, you didnt really answer my questions I SEE NO REASON WHY I SHOULD.
[Edited by anuj srivastava on 2024-12-29 06:07:46]
I prescribe like that.
I have Nat and in different potencies. I have probably taken Nat up to 1m and Nux up to 10m before.When you give our symptoms you should pen down the remedies you have taken and the potencies.
They do not let us do what we want. They are controlling.Means they are dominating.
I actually do not respond this way to my parents too much,peruse the u/m paras and respond.
history of taking on too much at a young age, having too many expectations placed on them, too strict parental control. They try to live up to these expectations and make a tremendous effort to perform exceedingly well. They set for themselves high standards or goals that are near impossible to achieve and drive themselves to try and accomplish them. In that sense, they reach out for perfection, and almost finish themselves in doing so.
Over strict parents impose all their desires on the child and do not allow him to think or do anything on his own. He cannot take his own decisions, to the extent that he is not allowed even to decide what clothes he should wear. If he starts taking his own decisions or does not live up to the expectations placed upon him, he will be punished cruelly. So he tries to live up to these expectations by being obedient and angelic in his behaviour, and by being excellent in his work. But he begins to develop a lack of self-confidence, and becomes nervous. He is irresolute, because the outcome of his decisiveness is usually a severe punishment. If the domination persists and he is compelled to put up with it, he starts reacting with cruelty, malice, want of moral feeling, and antisocial behaviour. Here he may also develop a tremendous overconfidence with contempt for others.
So, you didnt really answer my questions I SEE NO REASON WHY I SHOULD.
[Edited by anuj srivastava on 2024-12-29 06:07:46]
♡ anuj srivastava last week
ok thank you for the information. Yes that does sound like the situation. It is more about them and their expectations. But the rest of it sounds right.
So does that mean Nat mur is the best remedy for me? Should I take Nat Mur 10m since im pretty sure ive taken 1m before. I cant list all the remedies ive taken from the past. There are way too many. But most recently, I have only taken the Lycopodium once.
I can take the remedies like u prescribed meaning all 4. But please let me know about the potencies to take for Nat mur and Nux Vom? Should I take Nat 10m? And how? and should I take Nux vom 10m?
Thanks
So does that mean Nat mur is the best remedy for me? Should I take Nat Mur 10m since im pretty sure ive taken 1m before. I cant list all the remedies ive taken from the past. There are way too many. But most recently, I have only taken the Lycopodium once.
I can take the remedies like u prescribed meaning all 4. But please let me know about the potencies to take for Nat mur and Nux Vom? Should I take Nat 10m? And how? and should I take Nux vom 10m?
Thanks
mysteryman last week
person who wants to be noticed but is not, such as could happen when a person tries unsuccessfully to attract the attention of another especially from the opposite sex. This is not a situation of disappointed love, but one of unrequited love.
This is the fourth remedy which reflects your personality.
But only NM has Emaciation and poorly nourished on account of digestive disturbances.
NM strongly recommended start with 30 potency three times a day.from day 4.
This is the fourth remedy which reflects your personality.
But only NM has Emaciation and poorly nourished on account of digestive disturbances.
NM strongly recommended start with 30 potency three times a day.from day 4.
♡ anuj srivastava last week
Thank you so much Anuj!! All of that seems to make sense. I will start tomorrow and take them the way you said. And I will report back after 7 days.
Thanks again! Happy new year to you!
Thanks again! Happy new year to you!
mysteryman last week
I want to clarify something. When taking Nux 30, I am supposed to let the 5 pellets fully dissolve in the water and then take the first 1/3rd sip right? And then so on...
mysteryman last week
Ohh thats different from your directions. You are supposed to say take 5 pellets, drink the whole thing, then refill with 5 pellets and water again, then one more time.
mysteryman last week
THAT WAS FOR NUX IN DILUTION NOT FOR PELLETS.YOU CNA TAKE PELLETS SUBLINGUALLY AND LET THEM DISSOLVE.
[Edited by anuj srivastava on 2024-12-30 07:52:30]
[Edited by anuj srivastava on 2024-12-30 07:52:30]
♡ anuj srivastava last week
My good sir. We are not understanding each other. This is what I am referring to attached or below.
Nux Vom 30
05 drops in a cup containing an ounce of water, sip one third of it, 15 minutes later sip the next third of it, and 15 minutes later take the last third of it.HALF AN HOUR BEFORE DINNER.FOR 3 NIGHTS.
So, we are doing a liquid dose right?
Step 1: Dispense 5 pellets and drop into an ounce of water.
Step 2: Wait for pellets to dissolve fully in the water so you do not see pellets anymore.
Step 3: Take the first sip (1/3rd of it)
Step 4: Wait for 15 mins and sip the next 1/3rd
Step 5: Wait 15 mins and take last sip.
Is this correct the way I have the steps? Thanks
Nux Vom 30
05 drops in a cup containing an ounce of water, sip one third of it, 15 minutes later sip the next third of it, and 15 minutes later take the last third of it.HALF AN HOUR BEFORE DINNER.FOR 3 NIGHTS.
So, we are doing a liquid dose right?
Step 1: Dispense 5 pellets and drop into an ounce of water.
Step 2: Wait for pellets to dissolve fully in the water so you do not see pellets anymore.
Step 3: Take the first sip (1/3rd of it)
Step 4: Wait for 15 mins and sip the next 1/3rd
Step 5: Wait 15 mins and take last sip.
Is this correct the way I have the steps? Thanks
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mysteryman last week
FIVE PELLETS-FIVE PELLETS-FIVE PELLETS-GAP 15 MINUTES.
Step 1: Dispense 5 pellets and drop into an ounce of water.
Step 2: Wait for pellets to dissolve fully in the water so you do not see pellets anymore.
Step 3: Take the first sip (1/3rd of it)
Step 4: Wait for 15 mins and sip the next 1/3rd
Step 5: Wait 15 mins and take last sip.
NO FOR ABOVE
TAKE PELLETS SUBLINGUALLY AND LET THEM DISSOLVE.
Step 1: Dispense 5 pellets and drop into an ounce of water.
Step 2: Wait for pellets to dissolve fully in the water so you do not see pellets anymore.
Step 3: Take the first sip (1/3rd of it)
Step 4: Wait for 15 mins and sip the next 1/3rd
Step 5: Wait 15 mins and take last sip.
NO FOR ABOVE
TAKE PELLETS SUBLINGUALLY AND LET THEM DISSOLVE.
♡ anuj srivastava last week
Ok got it.
So, on day 4, when I start taking Nat mur 30. Do I also stop taking Nux? Or still continue to take it?
When you say, take at the same time 3 times a day for Nat Mur, do you mean like if I take it at 10 am, 3 pm, and 8 pm, and then I keep taking it at the same times everyday?
So, on day 4, when I start taking Nat mur 30. Do I also stop taking Nux? Or still continue to take it?
When you say, take at the same time 3 times a day for Nat Mur, do you mean like if I take it at 10 am, 3 pm, and 8 pm, and then I keep taking it at the same times everyday?
mysteryman last week
Do I also stop taking-YES.
, do you mean like if I take it at 10 am, 3 pm, and 8 pm, and then I keep taking it at the same times everyday?Approx the same time.
[Edited by anuj srivastava on 2025-01-02 07:57:13]
, do you mean like if I take it at 10 am, 3 pm, and 8 pm, and then I keep taking it at the same times everyday?Approx the same time.
[Edited by anuj srivastava on 2025-01-02 07:57:13]
♡ anuj srivastava last week
Ok thank u. Update so far.
The meds seem to be helping with energy levels and sleep. Nux vom especially seems to help with sleep and feeling better overall. But nowhere near 100 % better.
I am on day 5 and yesterday I started taking nat mur in place of nux. The nat mur doesnt seem to be helping as much as nux, but it has been only 1 full day of nat so cant really comment.
Another thing I want to say that is really a big problem is irritation in my stomach and bowels. I always have this, for breakfast, lunch, and dinners. Anytime i eat, and whatever I eat, it does not matter, I have this issue. I have a bowel movement right after eating and it is very annoying, irritable, with cramps, and not a pleasant experience. Sometimes it is while I am eating, I have to stop and go for bowel movement. I dont finish my food because of this. It really sucks and is very annoying. Sounds like irritable bowels and irritable stomach at the same time.
If there is anything to help with that please let me know. So frustrating. I cant eat anything without pain, urging to bathroom, and its effecting my life so much. Getting ready in mornings for work, during lunch time, etc. I think this is all related.
My biggest problems...Sleep - stomach/bowels - weight
Thanks
The meds seem to be helping with energy levels and sleep. Nux vom especially seems to help with sleep and feeling better overall. But nowhere near 100 % better.
I am on day 5 and yesterday I started taking nat mur in place of nux. The nat mur doesnt seem to be helping as much as nux, but it has been only 1 full day of nat so cant really comment.
Another thing I want to say that is really a big problem is irritation in my stomach and bowels. I always have this, for breakfast, lunch, and dinners. Anytime i eat, and whatever I eat, it does not matter, I have this issue. I have a bowel movement right after eating and it is very annoying, irritable, with cramps, and not a pleasant experience. Sometimes it is while I am eating, I have to stop and go for bowel movement. I dont finish my food because of this. It really sucks and is very annoying. Sounds like irritable bowels and irritable stomach at the same time.
If there is anything to help with that please let me know. So frustrating. I cant eat anything without pain, urging to bathroom, and its effecting my life so much. Getting ready in mornings for work, during lunch time, etc. I think this is all related.
My biggest problems...Sleep - stomach/bowels - weight
Thanks
mysteryman 5 days ago
And is there anything that can help me sexually? even if it is temporary? i need to have fun in my life!! I have no fun. ZERO fun! And I would like to be able to have some fun and sexual fun with a woman. and i cant if my penis is not working. ED problems, etc.
Please help
Please help
mysteryman 5 days ago
mysteryman 5 days ago
I now remember that this happened the last time I took Nat Mur 30c daily this often. Maybe its an aggravation? But I feel worse than usual.
mysteryman 4 days ago
Hello? Any response please. I would appreciate it. I dont know what to do? the nat mur seems to make things worse. makes the bowels worse and more irritated. makes me sneeze more. or is that just an aggravation in the beginning? Please advise what to do? I am continuing the cell salts.
Thank you
Thank you
mysteryman 4 days ago
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