Need remedy for possible symptoms of hormone imbalance

Dear Sir/Maam, Iam 34 yrs old and a mother to 2 daughters (aged 6 and 1). Below are details of my current problems. Looking for remedy help regarding this.

- I think I have hormone imbalance. My main sufferings are
- Acne leaves dark spots on the skin. The dark spots stay for months. Currenty they are on both sides of the jaw.This started at around the age of 29. I had moderate acne as a teenager but it would not leave scars then.
In my 20s my entire face used to break out in small pus filled pimples under slightest stress- physical or mental.But no scars then. These used to be reddish and itchy. This no longer happens now.
But as far back as I remember I have never been happy with my skin. My skin also looks very dull and dry and wrinkly. Also I sweat very less than normal.

- My second problem is hair fall and greying of hair. I think these are stress related.

- Also I get very depressed and irritated and angry and anxious. These symptoms increase before mensus. Mensus have been fairly regular with slight cramps, but the last month I was ill with cough and cold, and my mensus too was scanty. Thats when my hair started falling again.

- I think my college days were very stressful due to travelling in buses for long distance and dealing with all kinds of men in the bus. I think thats when the breaking out of tiny pimples all over the face started. I had gone to a homeopath for this but with not good results.
Then the acne leaving dark spots started after having domestic sqabbles with my mother-in-law. I had taken ayurvedic treatment for this realated to hormone-impbalance and it had got better. In this aspect I lost a bit of trust in my husband since I felt he never understood my point of view. Ours is a love marriage and my husband is very good-looking, while iam average looking. This too kind of keeps bogging me.My skin had become nice during pregnancy, but about after 6 months post delivery, the same acne leaving dark spots have started again.
-I often vent out my frustration on my 6-yr old, about which I feel very guilty and feel Iam not being a good mom.

-I used to work , but stopped after my first was born. This too bothers me even though it was entirely my decision.

-In my second pregnancy I did not gain weight properly and infact lost a lot of weight after delivery. My pre-pregnancy weight was 61. After delivery it went down to 52 in just a couple of months. Now after a year it is back to 61.

- I cannot tolerate cold and like warm and hot climate/drinks.
Also since childhood Iam very prone to throat infections , enlarged tonsils and lingerinng dry cough.

- Iam very sensitive to criticism and cannot take it in good spirit. Also Iam a jealous person. I also find it impossible to forgive and forget.

- Iam a vegetariaan. I like oily foods but stay away from them. I have this desire to look and feel healthy and fit, but this keeps evading me.

-Iam quite a fearful person and get tensed very easily.
Though outwardly for people who do not know me I am perceived as smart and confident person.
Iam not open about my feelings . Growing up I do not remember sharing my deepest feelings with anybody.

-I do not like when people shout in loud voices, it makes me tense. Even traffic jams makes me anxious. I also get tensed when any stranger comes knocking on the door.

- I sleep well, though sometimes used to have dreams of teeth falling.

Kindly let me know of any suitable remedy or any more information needed. Thank you.