Helpless - depression, skin oozing, hair loss

Hello,

I have been lurking on this forum for a while now.
I am hoping to find a remedy to my long standing problem.

Five years ago I have suffered from eczema behind both of my ears, which spread to my neck and part of my face. This was also accompanied by a genital eczema, around the vulva, in the folds of the thighs.
In both cases, the skin was very itchy, scaly and it oozed - dripped - clear liquid, for several days, until drying, on which the thin crust formed, which cracked on every movement and produced considerable discomfort and pain and bleeding.
I visited a local homeopath, which gave me a single dose of Nat Mur and within a few days, it all cleared.

Now, five years on, I have the very same problem, except aggravated. The eczema appears also on my facew, around chin, on cheeks, on the neck - frontal, it is also behind both ears and around genitals. Also, I am rather depressed and my hair is falling out at an allarming rate.

I suffer from frequent migraines, ever since I gave birth to twin boys (first birth of 3 - I have 4 children) - 11 years ago. These were helped by accupressure, after a three months long migraine, it just vanished, now it returns, especially after stressful events or due to lack of sleep, but it is managable.

I must say, that I have been through enormous stress lately, due to change of home, change of country, change of occupation, children's new school problems, husband's depression and his remarks and demands... I am irritable, depressed, feeling low and this feeling is made worse by the eczema.
I have pretended to be cheerful and happy for the past year, as two of us - parents - depressed at once was undesirable, I was hoping to cheer husband up, as soon as he left abroad for two months, my condition, eczema came back after 5 years.

I still breastfeed my 3 year old, the previous child breasfed for 4 years.

I suffered from bad heair loss after childbirth of twin boys, to an extent of shaving my hair off, to make them regrow stronger. After the girls were born, I had no problem with hair loss, but I do suffer from it now.

I lose huge quantity of hair every day.

I am in my thirties, and am an artist. I love spicy food and sweet food, alkthough I don't indulge in it much, I lead a vegetarian diet and live mostly on vegetables, fruit, breads, pizza, pasta, yoghurts and nuts.

I love cappuccinos, but have lately been detoxing - two months off caffeine.

I don't drink alcohol (unless it is a social occasion when I may have a glass of wine) and I don't smoke.

I have bad circulation, I can't stand cold weather or chilly weather, even in August I can get tingling cold fingers and toes.
My extremities are always cold, I have cold feet all the time, but can't stand socks in bed.
I prefer not arguing as arguments destroy my sense of peace, hence try to avoid confrontation.

I love cold carbonated drinks, I dislike still water.

I have bottled up feelings with regard to the past.

I have as a baby suffered from eczema behind my ears, which hovered around. I had it during chidhood sometimes, then it cleared and returned as it pleased.:D

I haven't suffered from acne, but now I have outbreaks of eczema on my skin, and it is disturbing me much.

I am generally against painkillers and medicines. I birthed at home in a natural umnedicated birth.

I am generally healthy, having less than one cold a year, although this year - in February - I have suffered a strange case of lymphatic glands inflamation, where my blood tests came clear, yet doctors couldn't determine the cause. my ears inflamed and became huge and grotesquly large, they itched inside, my lymp glands of the neck, under the chin and below ears were inflamed. I had X rays done and was given antibiotics. The problem returned and persisted for over a month, I was given antibiotics intravenously, them it gradually went away. Perhaps it is connected to the eczema somehow, perhoas I have compromised immune system.

I am taking echinacea at the moment.

I have also taken Nat Mur 30 x 2 weeks ago, 2 pills every two hours for the first day and 4 doses of 2 pills on the subsequent 5 days.

The condition improved innitially, although I did have an awful headache during treatment. Now, today, I woke up with a genital skin oozing clear liquid again, the lession on my neck is angry as are the ones on my face.

I wish i could sort this befor husband returns home in two weeks.

Any thoughts on treatment? Shall I continue taking Nat Mur or shall I try something else?

Thank you so much for reading and for your time.

E.A.